The Best Man Speech:
5 Tips For Writing An Unforgettable Tribute To The Bride and Groom
What To Talk About In Your Best Man Speech
1. Comments about your duties and responsibilities as a best man including a humorous story.
2. A humorous or romantic story about when and how the bride and groom met.
3. An anecdote about the times you and the groom have shared as close friends.
4. Why you think the bride and groom make a perfect couple.
5. How the groom’s life has been affected by the relationship and how it has changed him.
How To Write Your Best Man Speech
Start by jotting down a few ideas. Then spend time thinking about what you will say — what stories or jokes or one-liners to tell. Let the ideas percolate for a few days. Think of humorous things to say. Think of praiseworthy comments about the bride and groom. Make notes as you go along.
Then organize your material. Write your outline. Use simple words and short sentences. Start by introducing yourself so the guests know who you are. Then lead into your tribute.
Finally, prepare your toast. The toast doesn’t have to be very long — especially if it’s preceded by a speech.
Fine tune your presentation until you are satisfied with it. Use notes or cards as reminders.
Rehearsing
Memorize the opening and closing sentences and the toast. Practice to the point where you know it well enough that you are comfortable with it and it flows naturally.
Most of all, be yourself. Make your tribute heartfelt, personal, and sincere.
Follow these tips for your Best Man Speech and you’ll deliver your presentation with ease and confidence.
